bridal fair headache

So its pretty awesome to go to a bridal fair with your husband to be. just sayin :) Seriously tho! Can we talk about Weddings? Who honestly can/wants to spend $20,000 on a wedding? I learned about so many things that I could spend a fortune on today. I had no idea of half the things I was told today I most definitely needed! I got a HUGE stack of cards, discounts, flyers, a pink bride binder, and tested many a different kind of food. It was very exciting to walk around with Dave and have everyone be excited for us (but they really just wanted our money). I'm so lucky to have Dave though. There were only a handful of other grooms there, and mine was happy and totally felt as though he should be there :) All the vendors were very impressed! Anyways. I find great comfort in Dave having a cousin who does photography, or a roommate who does videography, or an aunt who does hair, a friend who does make-up, or having a friend who would make an adorable guest sign in book. I love knowing awesomely talented people. And besides them being so talented, I don't have to pay literally $4,000 for my wedding pictures. So thank you friends and family. Thank you for being so diversely talented!! :)

(Update-So! There is no ring yet, its not "official" although we are heavy into the planning process!)

til death do us part

I am in a murder mystery musical right now :) Its at Provo Theatre Company (100 E 100 N) and it runs Fridays, Saturdays, and Mondays at 7 til the end of September. For more info you can go to poisonivymysteries.com

Anyways!! Its very different! The audience is the detective and its very interactive! I love how different it is, and it has been fun because you never know what you will be asked!

I'm Kaye Oxy, the sister of the bride! I am extremely ditzy and have a huge crush on the brother of the groom which makes me end up being creepy! Dave is the emotional yet somehow relate-able cook. He sings a really funny rock song! SO....if you have a free night some weekend in september you should head on over to the provo theatre for some unique and awesome fun! :)

happy days

This is happiness.


Here are some random pics from the spectacular parts of my life!

i feel like my blog is behind

today i heard the prophets voice. i cried. i felt pure happiness and peace, and it was wonderful to be sitting next to my best friend who i will be spending forever with. i've had so many opportunities to grow and learn from the spirit, especially the past couple of weeks. my testimony of the savior Jesus Christ becomes stronger each day as i choose to live what i know is right. what an amazing thing. what a blessing. my world is incredibly happy and wonderful right now, and yet as there is opposition in all things, i have been experiencing great loss. many people around me have voiced opinions, and i know they care deeply about me. some people don't understand choices im making. thats ok. some may say im rushing things. im not. im not rushed at all. im happy. i hope that with time people will trust the decisions i make because they trust and love me. because the harsh words and disbelief provide no help to me. i know that as time passes and they see how truly happy i am they will know as i do how right this is. how exceptionally wonderful my decision is. how marrying dave dixon is the biggest and best decision i will make in this life. i feel at home.

so much, yet so little time

I feel like so much has happened since my last post. My Internet hasn't been working and so I haven't been able to post anything! Which seriously has been driving me up the wall. I have so many posts and have to play catch up now....not fun! So to you faithful 3 followers :) I will work on getting everything updated.

First-

Dave.

Dave is in the Murder Mystery with me right now, he plays the emotional cook for the Wedding, and I am the creepy sister of the Bride. He is also playing my werewolf in Hotel Frankenstein this year. What a wonderfully, amazing person. Can I just say I am SO lucky to know him? To be able to trust and confide in him is beautiful. He makes me calm and peaceful and purely, purely happy. I love talking and working through things with him. I feel like I already know him, I'm just learning about his history now. Very difficult to explain but here are some pics of him!

sherri beary

Although it looks like only one person reads my blog (thank you anna for being an official follower) supposedly more people actually read my blog on a regular basis. And these people who aren't an official follower, and never want to comment :) still want spotlights done. Well to be honest, Sherri more than deserves one. It was her birthday at the beginning of this month, and man do I love her. We always have been close, and I just am so grateful for our friendship. She is a great listener and always is willing to be goofy with me. Thats why I had to post some of the funnest pics :) Basically, I love her. She is awesome. And she has always been a huge part of my life. I owe her a lot. I wouldn't even have a mode of transportation if it weren't for her! So thank you sherri! Thanks for all you have sacrificed for me! I think your pretty awesome.

the county fair

Wow....the Utah County Fair. This place is dirty, ghetto, and just plain weird! I don't know how much explanation is needed, but I think these pics do it justice.

First can we discuss the weird belly dancer gypsies. I had to hide my face because I was laughing so hard! They seriously thought they were the hottest women alive, and it was actually quite pathetic. Notice they can also balance swords on their heads...very talented women.

Please take the time to watch a snippet of their moving performance...


Ok, time to move on to other fabulous and just funny parts of the county fair.

For example, to our left we have an amazing piece of art. It is made entirely out of nitrile exam gloves...unique?














And to our right this pig's head cake won a prize! Isn't it just a wonderful cake? Where else does a pig head with chocolate chips stuffed in its mouth win an actual prize? Its just awesome :)


This porcelain doll isn't creepy at all. I think it fits right in with every other weird thing at the fair...

This is a cultural thing I just must not be in to, but seriously can you tell me these things are "normal"?

The one saving grace of the County Fair, Texas Twisters. The best $6 drink ever. It is a little piece of heaven with lemons, and limes. Yay for good times at the County Fair :)

Snip, Snip, Snip

Last night I decided I needed a haircut, so I thought I would drastically cut off about 4 or 5 inches and leave it at that. But when I woke up this morning I decided I wanted it just below my shoulders. That would be short enough right? See the thing is I've never really had short hair because 1. Being in so many plays my hair has to be versatile for any era and style 2. My dad loves long hair 3. I just never thought it would look good short

And then I actually got to the salon, and DUN! DUN!! DUN!!! They said that if I donated 2 or 3 inches more than the desired length I could donate it to locks of love. Well then I realized it would be completely stupid not to cut 2 more inches. I knew I would feel much better about this impulsive decision later on, when reality set in, if I actually had a legit reason for cutting it. And how awesome would that be to know my hair will actually help someone? Let me tell you. Really awesome.

Weird moments so far-
1. I used to play with this piece of hair in the back, and now its not long enough to twist anymore. Awkward when I try to play with it still.
2. I saw this girls reflection with short hair in a window as I was walking, and then I realized it was me.
3. The shortness accentuates how much I actually bop around. Ya kinda embarrassing....didn't realize I was so bouncy!
4. Can't wait til I wash it tomorrow morning...now I'm sure that will be weird..

Anyways, I like it, its just different! I think that I needed the change. I think it fits my personality and if you don't like it....its a good thing hair grows back :)

P.s. Wanna know what my dad told me? I might as well be bald...Haha. He loves long hair. But I think this will make my hair so much healthier, and I love it!

twinners..but not

Its a weird thing when your sister who is 6 years younger than you, looks like your twin. So is that a compliment to her that she looks 6 years younger? Or a dis to me saying I look like I'm 13? Well, basically we both look like we are 15 or 16. Haily has transformed into a beautiful model. Seriously I am amazed at how quickly she grew up. Last year at this time she was probably 4 inches shorter and still young looking. Now boys are hitting on her. Not ok!! Weird moment-I took my sibs to 7 peaks, and Haily and I were standing in line. These two 16 year old boys came up and starting hitting on us. Now Haily just started giggling and acting like a 13 year old should (shocked that a boy noticed her) on the other hand, I was amazed that these boys thought I was young enough to be interested in them. Finally it came out that they thought we were twins. Well announcement: We are not twins. Althoough I have a bright and bubbly nature, I am 6 years older than her. Not that I mind people thinking I look like her, cuz lets face it, my sister is a babe. And she is amazingly talented. Too bad she got ALL the creative juices from my dad. :) I love her lots.
I bet when we are older we will think its cool to be twins....maybe we will be like Grandma Carolyn and Joyce. I hope we get to be so matchy matchy that even our pins, scarves, shoes, and bags are the exact same....Then again, I think I'm ok with us just looking like twins without dressing identical.

on set

This morning I stepped inside my high school's rivalry, Mountain View High School; but I was actually quite excited to be there. I was getting ready to play Amy, in the movie called "The Last Eagle Scout". Sounds like a cheesy mormon movie right? WRONG. Not at all. Not mormon. And not cheesy. Well at least I hope it doesn't turn out cheesy:) But I was SO nervous. See, I'm an actor right? But I don't know diddly about film. I am super comfortable on stage. I'm an expressive energetic person and that is perfect for the stage....but film? No. My face moves way too much for the camera, so I was nervous to even have to do this small part. I didn't know what to expect. I was told to bring some ideas for costumes and I only got the script 2 days before. So I just felt very inexperienced and nervous walking into the large cafeteria at MV. As the day went on and people were powdering my face, spraying my hair, and fixing my lighting, I got more used to it. I gained confidence quickly as I tried to meet as many people as I could, and tried to get my name out there. What an experience! I mean I was on set with people who have done lots and lots of film. I feel priveledged that I was able to be among them and learn from them.
I was playing Amy, the selfish brat of the school. Everyone else wears black button up shirts and black pants, you'll notice my outfit is very diva. Haha. I was so worried everyone wouldn't like me in real life. But it didn't take them long to realize the giggly girl dressed as the snobbish Amy was actually normal and not like that. The craziest part of film is the repetition and time it takes. For a 5 minute scene I was there from 8:30-3:30. Long time. And I can totally see how people become method actors-especially in film. You are involved in a scene all day and have to emotionally stay there all day. Its very different from a play. I still don't think its healthy, but I see how it could happen very easily. I also saw many "divas" on set. Ya. No matter how pampered I am, I never ever want to be like that.

Overall it was a great opportunity and I am so grateful for the experience. I love when I can be a sponge and just learn like crazy. I thrive off those kind of situations.

So would I try film again? Its different. The actors are different. The environment is different. And the stage really is my home and first love. But I wouldn't be opposed to having more experience. I was intrigued with the tedious process.